The main reason for these phenomenons is beacuse people inherited the idea of taking care of parents after thousands of years. most people still misunderstand the reason of the existance of the retirement home, thinking it's for elderly people who doesn't have people looking after them, so they didn't consider it and would not want to send their parents to the retirement home. Even those who are busy with work and could hardly take care of the elderly people, still thinks it's better for them to stay home than the retirement home. Many people find it cruel to send their parents who have white care to an unfamiliar retirement home. If it's the parents that mentioned that they want to be sent to the retirement home, then there are a few who respects the choice of their parents, but would still like to get some details about the retirement home first
Appears this kind of phenomenon the main reason, or lay in follows the number millennium tradition to care for the aged the idea. The
majority of people to the old age apartment existence misunderstanding, thought there lives is does not have the widowed
senior citizen which the family member looks after, naturally also
does not have the consideration, is not willing to deliver oneself the parents to care for the aged to the old age apartment. Even if own usually work the busy attendance not on old person, still thought old person's always goes to the old age apartment in the home to be better than. Delivers the strange old age apartment the white hair gray parents to care for the aged, always thought does not have the heart.If is the parents proposed on own initiative must arrive the old agea partment to care for the aged, but actually some several expressions can respect the parents opinion, but beforehand can understand the old age apartment the situation.