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梁山好汉里有四对著名的夫妻档:母夜叉孙二娘和菜园子张青、母大虫顾大嫂和小尉迟孙新、没羽箭张清和琼矢镞琼英、一丈青扈三娘和矮脚虎王英。这四对夫妻档里,前两对是豺狼配虎豹,第三对是郎才配女貌,都是天造地设、神谋化力的搭子!只有这第四对,男方五短身材、形容猥琐、武艺拙劣,女方高挑婀娜、花容月貌、武艺高强,分明就是一朵鲜花插在了牛粪上!

古往今来,有无数人替扈三娘鸣不平,说她红颜薄命,身不由己,梁山上能与她匹配的,该是擒住她的林冲,可惜宋江却想拉拢人心,把她像个物件一样送给了矮脚虎王英!群情汹汹,当事人扈三娘却好像丝毫没觉得嫁给王英有何不妥,不仅被许配给王英时不哭不闹,含羞带臊,嫁给王英之后,也一直是夫唱妇随,琴瑟和谐,到了最后,甚至心甘情愿为王英而死!
一切表面上看不匹配、结果却牢固的婚姻,都有外人难以发现的平衡内核。王英虽然形象不好,武功不高,但他却有个好处,让女人愿意对他服服帖帖、死心塌地!而他这个好处,不仅大部分梁山好汉不及,就连大家拉郎配拉的豹子头林冲,也是十分不及!
一、宋江乱点鸳鸯谱,娇女嫁给五短汉

扈三娘是独龙岗扈家庄扈太公的独生爱女,不仅生得是玉雪肌肤,芙蓉模样,更有一身好武艺,善使两口日月双刀,连亲哥哥飞天虎扈成,也是十分不如!梁山攻打祝家庄时,扈三娘虽仍在闺中,却已早早许了人家,订的便是祝家庄的三郎祝彪,早晚便会成亲。宋江攻打祝家庄,扈三娘只一出场,便已惊艳群雄,见她雪样肌肤,花样容貌,王英登时馋虫拱动,眼放精光,立刻主动请缨,骤马向前,挺手出枪,恨不得一回合就将这女子捉回来!
只可惜矮脚虎志向虽大,武功却是十分不济,而扈三娘的花容月貌,更是让他眼颤手酥,没十回合便已招架不住!见这汉子招架不住了,一双光眼还在自己身上打量,扈三娘心中大怒,手一伸便把王英从他马鞍上提了下了,横拖倒拽的扔回自己阵中!一阵乱战之后,一丈青拍马赶来,便要追杀宋江,幸而林冲及时赶到,这才没让一丈青下手成功!

林冲对扈三娘,像扈三娘对王英一样,有压倒性优势,两人斗了不到十合,林冲便卖个破绽,然后猿臂轻舒,便把扈三娘提溜起来,挟到自己的马上!见林冲有样学样,依葫芦画瓢,以彼之道,还之彼身,把个吃瓜群众宋江看得是兴高采烈,大喊精彩!
扈三娘被擒住后,宋江便让人把她反手绑了,送到他老爹宋太公处,所有人都以为宋江会自己要了这女子,李逵也讥讽他,还没跟人家成亲,就开始思量丈人阿舅,然而宋江却一掉头,将她认作义妹,没把她嫁给擒住她的林冲,却把她嫁给了她手到擒来的王英!身为俘虏,又是义妹,扈三娘推脱不得,当场就把婚给结了,而那王英白天才当俘虏,夜里就当新郎,宋江这事儿算是办到他心坎里了!
二、嫁给王英之后,扈三娘为何会死心塌地?

若说嫁给王英,扈三娘还有被迫成分,但成婚之后对王英死心塌地,却是扈三娘主动为之!结婚之后,扈三娘彻彻底底成了王英的附属品,时时刻刻的夫唱妇随,在战场上,扈三娘干得主要也是两件事,第一件就像大战天寿公主时那样,她在前面冲杀拼命,让丈夫王矮虎缩在她后面,伺机捡人头;第二件就像战盛本时那样,在丈夫身后掠阵,见丈夫不敌,便拍马舞刀,替丈夫出头!
而战方腊时,扈三娘更是为王英而死,王矮虎武功不济,一枪便被郑魔君戳下马去,扈三娘急赶来救,焦躁之间,中了圈套,被郑魔君一块金砖中了面门,可怜能战佳人,到此命陨沙场!那么扈三娘为何会对样样不如他的王英如此死心塌地,甚至愿意为他而死呢?在小编看来,这是因为王英身上的一个特点,梁山好汉们都说这是王英的缺点,而在女性看来,却是王英的优点!
《水浒传》里,想要做个形象正面的好汉,第一个条件,便是要不近女色,女人在梁山好汉那里,不是可有可无,而是最好是无,即使有了,也一定要敬而远之,当做摆设!晁盖想当晁天王,他必须三十多岁,却无心娶妻,宋江和卢俊义想改头换面,必须杀了自己的外室和妻子。阎婆惜、卢氏、潘金莲、潘巧云,《水浒传》里,一个个例子都在说“山下的女人是老虎,遇见了千万要躲开”,做男人,还是要跟兄弟们玩在一起才是纯爷们!
《三国演义》里,刘备虽然也说“兄弟如手足,女人如衣服”,但甘夫人、糜夫人丢了,刘备的兄弟们都会去舍命守守护,而《水浒传》的兄弟们,却都以替兄弟杀老婆为义气!这种态度,让女性同胞们读了,如何不齿冷?做这种人的老婆,怎么可能会幸福?而矮脚虎王英却是梁山好汉里的异类!

王英劫了刘高之妻,宋江便对他说:“要贪女色,不是好汉勾当”“犯了‘溜骨髓’三个字的,好生惹人耻笑”,王英却不理会宋江这套说辞,定要他日后赔自己一个老婆作伴,方是完整人生!而第二次俘虏刘高妻后,王英还想要这女子做压寨夫人,燕顺不由分说,便把这女子砍了,王英哪理会什么“兄弟如手足,女人如衣服”,提刀就要跟燕顺火拼!
用旧的评价标准看,王英是“重色轻义”,但站在女性的角度,王英这个缺点,却是优点了!扈三娘嫁给王英之后,她对王英不是可有可无,王英不会把她往角落一扔,敬而远之,更不会像《三国演义》里的刘安那样,朋友刘备造访,家里无物款待,就杀了老婆吃肉……她会被王英当做宝贝,放在心尖尖上,兄弟朋友在自己老婆面前,全都靠边站,即便是对现在的女性来说,这也是一个巨大的吸引力了!
因为“重色”这个缺点,王英被评价为下下等人物,的确,在梁山好汉们的价值体系里,王英不是一个“大丈夫”,但在女人眼里,他却可能成为比其他梁山好汉更好的“丈夫”!
疼爱妻子。因为在古代这个男尊女卑的社会里,女性想要得到男性的尊重跟疼爱,其实是很困难的,王英做到了,所以扈三娘才会看上他。
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